6. Reduce Choice Stress
Our lives are full of options and decisions that need to be made. What do I wear today? What do I eat for breakfast and then for lunch? What do I choose off the shelf at the shop when I'm [...]
Our lives are full of options and decisions that need to be made. What do I wear today? What do I eat for breakfast and then for lunch? What do I choose off the shelf at the shop when I'm [...]
Before entering a difficult discussion or just wanting to talk about something mildly anxiety-raising, like doing the laundry, I try Fun Things First and Last. Why? Because it sets the scene—it lets my son know that everything is going to [...]
Learning to communicate calmly and neutrally can be a game-changer for parents. For example, affirmative or descriptive language, is a way of relating that is easy for anyone to process: “I'm aware that you’re trying to get your driver’s license. [...]
Schools today favour group work, public speaking and students being exposed to a wide variety of topics, which can be great. Until it isn't. Neurodivergent people are often specialists. Demanding that they take up every subject and activity known to [...]
Neurodiverse young people can benefit from seeing loving (not necessarily uncomplicated) relationships in action, particularly if they are going to have one themselves. Try not to allow a parent–child allegiance to form against the other parent. Your child won't benefit [...]
If you or your partner are on the spectrum or have some autistic traits - own it. Doing so gives you an “in” with your child/young person and means you can be an invaluable resource for them. You know what [...]
This post is about my personal transformation. I felt sad that I was missing out on being the parent I wanted to be. Our little family was missing out on being a loving family. We tried goals and therapies but [...]